Why are people surprised that I like being the dominant partner in the relationship

🌐 Machine-translated content Read original text ↗

I'm a girl and I like being the dominant one in the relationship — I like my partner or husband or fiancé to follow me and for me to have the final say. Maybe I was raised this way and my personality is strong.. I don't know if it's because I'm attractive and I'm afraid other men will take advantage of me, so I prefer to take charge and lead them my way, or if it's just my nature.. But whatever the reason.. if I like it this way and I'm looking for someone who likes it too.. why do people who have nothing to do with it at all object?