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Is love a good enough reason to marry? I love my girlfriend but I feel we don't understand each other

I've been in a relationship for about two years. My girlfriend and I love each other very, very much and we want to spend all our time together, but at the same time I feel our ways of thinking are completely different. Sometimes we have big arguments over sm…

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My husband likes to see me with other men... and I've started enjoying it

I know this is shocking, but I'll get straight to it. My husband likes other men to see me looking enticing. Even though he's jealous, at the same time he likes it when I answer the door for the delivery guy or for housekeeping in hotels wearing sexy clothes …

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What skill should I teach my kids so they can find work in the future

Of course we all see what is happening in the world and the many changes that are happening almost daily, and how AI has changed the whole world and will change it even more… I had imagined before AI that when my kids turn 10 I would start teaching them progr…

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I tried working online a lot and every time I fail I’ve only collected $20 in a year

Of course we all know how living conditions have become expensive lately, and the job really isn’t enough for a person to live comfortably, and I always see people achieving excellent results online and literally making fortunes, and I entered many fields and…

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My husband doesn't have sex with me unless I ask him directly

I am married for 6 years and at the beginning of our marriage my husband used to have sex normally like any two married people, not very often maybe once a week or twice a week, but after the first few months of marriage the situation completely changed and h…

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I’ll try to persuade my husband to travel and work abroad but he doesn’t want to leave me and the kids

Now I am married with two kids and the situation is really secret, but until when? Everything is getting expensive and we can’t bear it for long. I see people travel abroad and succeed, and my husband is stubborn about it. I keep pleading with him to do like …

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